ARASH DIBAZAR – LAWS OF SOCIAL DYNAMICS

You need to communicate your idea in the proper way if you want to get it across to someone else. If you are doing something with another human being, you will need to communicate.

I want to talk about something that is preventing good communication from happening. It is one of those things that everyone knows about, but they haven’t seen the proper way to do it, so it is ok to do.

You could be brilliant, strong, whatever, even if you have something in your head. It needs to move outside. Communication is the form of doing that. A lot of things happen from here to out. I know a lot of people who are brilliant, but they sound like douches when they talk.

Communication is the activity of doing that.

Anyone who wants to be successful in life needs to master communication. I don’t mean being good at it, because we live in a society where everyone sucks at it. They suck at it. How do I know? People say, I love Arash, he speaks his mind. What else should I say? He is interesting because he is able to just talk. What should I do?

You, when you approach a female, the way you walk up to her, the way you look, how you lean forward and back, how your hands are doing, all of that is communicating to her. The last time she bought a car, the last time she went out and had a good time, and the last time she picked a boyfriend had nothing to do with her conscious mind.

She reasoned why she made that decision based on her emotions.

She did it consciously, but on a deeper level she sees that your voice is not strong enough, you’re talking too fast, and she doesn’t know this on a conscious level. She doesn’t know what she feels, she feels not good. She makes a rational decision on why she doesn’t like you.

She feels an emotion of being attracted to you if there isn’t a way to make that happen. She will make a decision. She will figure it out, but her emotions will make her do it.

You are going to walk up and have an emotional, powerful, seductive communication with her that will cause her to start making reasons. You are going to do that.

You use the conscious talk to keep her busy. You are going to hit the guards with the door. You are going from behind the walls after a while.

With some chatter, you keep their mind occupied. They are feeling something and that is your job. Your job is to let her know you care about her. Your job is not to talk in a way where she can walk away and say that she liked talking to him. Even if she says you are cute.

It is a language of emotions and you have to understand it. The job of a seduction artist is to create a certain level of emotion in a woman. She would pay for the emotions that she deems worthy. I see it that way.

You have to learn how to feel emotions. You need to get out of the logical mind.

This is what The Laws of Social Dynamics will teach you.