You probably don’t want to know that your teachers never taught you.

You have been tricked into thinking hard work is the key to success.

It’s important to put in your time and do a good job.

One day, your dream partner will walk into your life if you are a good person.

I am sorry to tell you that you have been sold a lie.

Hollywood movies, school, even your parents tricked you into believing the world rewards those who put their head down, work hard, and deserve to be rewarded.

It doesn’t.

That is why you see people who are smarter than you getting the jobs that you want.

People who aren’t better than you get the dates that you want.

You haven’t been able to get the life you want because you haven’t done all the things you were told to.

It is who you know, not just what you know. It isn’t just what you do, it’s what others are willing to do for you.

You are going to lose out in life to people that don’t deserve to be beating you if you aren’t charismatic. They will beat you. Again and again.

Ben did not get a job offer eleven years ago.

We all know that this is how the world works.

It is the most important thing in your life. This is not just about your social life. Everything is affected by this.

If you could turn it on and wow any room at a moment’s notice, what would life be like?

It became clear to me that I should create a university.

• I wasn’t the only one being held back in their career by a lack of confidence
• Most people, including myself for most of my life, are situationally confident. They’re great in small familiar groups, but in large groups or high pressure situations they become hesitant and meek (especially with work superiors, gorgeous members of the opposite sex, and the people they most admire)
• Too many people are worried to take risks. Whether it’s starting a business, getting a promotion, or talking to the incredibly attractive person at the bar, they miss out on getting what they deserve because they don’t have the confidence to go for it or the charisma to make it happen

Do you remember a time when you felt like this?

You didn’t try to connect when you saw someone.

You let an opportunity pass when you hesitated.

Maybe it was the gorgeous woman who made your heart beat faster.

It could be a potential mentor, someone you look up to, someone who can guide you and inspire you to achieve the kind of massive success they have had in their own lives.

You would like to talk to them. A tiny voice in your head makes you hesitate. After a few minutes of terrible, forced conversation, they excuse themselves to get away.

If you have ever been at a conference or networking event and seen someone succeed, you are not alone. If you have ever been at a coffee shop and watched someone walk away, you are not alone.

We have all been there. Every single person I have ever met has been there.

We missed out on life-changing opportunities and people that could have enhanced our lives.

What is different? What is special? Someone does something about it.

The person who goes up shoulders back, head held high, and knows exactly what to say left that person thinking holy cow, I need to see them again. That is very rare.

Are you ready to be that person?

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