[Download Now] Emotional Manipulation: Understanding Manipulators and Helping Their Victims – James Fogarty

Behind the mask of manipulation.

Many lives and relationships are complicated by emotional manipulation. People who use emotional manipulation hide beneath the mask of love, concern, dedication, and friendship, while using guilt, button-pushing, subtle anger, and many types of covert ploys to keep their victims in place. There are multiple meanings to the words of Emotional Manipulators. They carefully balance the amount of money they give to others with the amount of money they get. They are masters of getting others to believe they are doing everything for them while hiding their motives. Every sentence is carefully crafted with their own selfish needs hidden.

A thorough investigation into the various types of emotional manipulation commonly associated with disorders such as antisocial personality disorder, narcissistic personality disorder, and borderline personality disorder can be found in this recording. Many people are good at emotional manipulation. Research shows that emotional manipulation is used by sex offenders, as well as abusers and their victims. In the home, this dynamic can be found when children and adult- children emotionally manipulate their parents.

The recording focuses on helping mental health care professionals recognize these individuals and begin intervention with their victims to minimize their destructive behavior. You will learn about Emotional Manipulators and how they manipulate their victims. You will learn how to help victims cope with emotional manipulation. At the end of the recording, you will have a deeper understanding of Emotional Manipulators, their victims, and methods to assist these individuals in disengaging from unhealthy communication.

1. Utilize clinical strategies to recognize how Emotional Manipulators test for vulnerabilities to locate their next victim
2. Recognize the manipulative devices of Emotional Manipulators for purposes of client psychoeducation
3. Help client victims understand what an Emotional Manipulator really wants for purposes of client psychoeducation
4. Learn clinical interventions to help client victims STOP their emotional manipulation
5. Identify the Ten Types of Emotional Manipulators as it relates to case conceptualization
6. Identify the Tools of Emotional Manipulators for purposes of client psychoeducation
7. Recognize the magical thoughts of Emotional Manipulators and how this informs clinical treatment
8. Explore Emotional Manipulators’ effective use of shame, blame, and doubt with their victims and how this informs clinical treatment
9. Learn clinical interventions that support and advise client victims who are untangling from emotional manipulation

There is a definition of emotional manipulation.

• A working definition of emotional manipulation
• A composite of many definitions
• Examples of Emotional Manipulators

There are ten types of emotional therapists.

• The Constant Victim
• The One-Upmanship Expert
• Powerful Dependents
• The Triangulators
• The Blasters
• The Projectors
• The Misinterpreters
• The Flirts
• The Iron Fist
• The Multiple Offender

There are tools for emotional manipulating.

• Guilt is their specialty
• Pretending to be victimized by the victim
• Changing the meaning of words
• Powerful dependencies
• Entitlement
• Covert badgering
• Hiding behind the mask
• Irritability
• Experts in triangulation
• Pretending to be ill or suicidal
• Using provocative behavior
• The deceptions of constantly being misunderstood
• How they attack their victim’s self-esteem
• Isolate, destroy and enjoy the effect!
• Manipulative disappointment
• How they pretend: “No one understands like you do”
• The smoke screen they utilize
• How they pretend: “I’m your number one fan”
• How they use enticements for desired behavior

Emotions are thought of as magical.

• If I am pompous, I avoid shame
• If I am a victim, I have power
• If I triangulate, I get revenge
• If I promise love, I get sex
• If I blame you, you will give me what I want
• If I break you, I own you
• If I indulge, I am the preferred parent
• If I threaten or pressure, I motivate

Emotions are tested to find their victims.

• The pen test
• Grooming—”Getting to know you, getting to know all about you”
• Testing for dependencies
• The shotgun blast
• Sympathetic attitude to learn their victim’s history
• Categorizing people
• Test for desperateness—cat and mouse when first getting to know their victim
• Deluge the new victim with every type of attention
• Extreme interest
• Impressing their victim—the test of shallowness

The qualities and magic of their victims.

• Co-dependent
• Looking for love—desperately
• Perceive bad qualities of manipulators as strength
• Caring and loving
• Want to please/feel overly responsible
• Unfulfilled needs
• Abuse and/or neglected in childhood
• Vulnerable
• Passionate
• Immune to falling out of love

There are technologies that can be used to stop perpetrators from being perpetrators.

• Changing their perception of the Emotional Manipulator
• Adjust the perception of a victim into a survivor
• Re-structuring the survivor’s cognitive distortions
• Creating healthy barriers between the Emotional Manipulator and the survivor
• Teaching survivors to recognize their own vulnerabilities
• Instruct survivors to more easily recognize Emotional Manipulators

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