• Have you ever messed things up with a woman you really liked?
• Have you ever approached a woman, only to have her not respond to you at all? Did you ever feel like you were invisible to women?
• Have you ever had a girlfriend you adored, but your level of insecurity and low self-confidence seemed to doom you to the same outcome – certain breakup?
• Have you ever walked up to talk to a woman and had her start out smiling and interested, but she gradually seemed to lose interest, eventually turning back to her friends and ignoring you until you walked away?
• Have you ever lost your emotional cool around a woman, only to feel out of control around her, and then she lost interest and attraction in you because you couldn’t stay relaxed…?
• Have you ever felt like your jealousy takes control over your head and your heart, even when the woman you liked wasn’t even dating you yet?
• Have you ever been out with a group of friends, and you felt compelled to try to be the “life of the party,” because you thought the “alpha” of the group had to be the loudest, the funniest, and the one with the coolest banter?
• Have you ever felt like you were ‘possessed’ to pick up the phone, or tell a woman your feelings, or “share your emotions” with her, only to find out that you scared her away with your gesture? It was like you knew with your brain that you should stay in control, but your emotions completely took control of you…
• Have you ever been in a social situation where you felt like you couldn’t keep up with the conversation, or really “hang in there” and be very fun, mostly because you were too busy watching your own behavior – trying NOT to screw things up or say the wrong thing?

If you have ever had any of these things happen to you, you know that the one thing you wish you had more of is your inner game.

You know that you could improve your success ratio with women if you could control your fear and anxieties. I know how shaky I used to feel with women, and that it was my inner confidence that was holding me back.

The worst part of this for me was knowing that I was doing this to myself.

The most frustrating experience for men is feeling out of control.

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This was a big challenge for me. When I was around an attractive girl, I had a bad temper and could barely control myself. I would act like a child. I knew it was killing my chances with this girl, but I just couldn’t help myself.

You could call it a quest because I went on this massive inner game. I wanted to figure out how to control my crazy mind.

Inner game, what is it?

It is a fancy term for some of our most important qualities as a man.

There are things in the Inner Game.

• Self-confidence – Being cool, not needy, and self-reliant…
• Controlling your fears and emotions – Not losing control and becoming a train wreck when you are put in situations that are unfamiliar or charged…
• Control of your thinking – Not getting caught in your head and stuck in your own thinking… being present-moment focused… Having inner awareness and self-control…
• Getting rid of anxiety and nervousness – Feeling relaxed and calm in any social situation… Having good social skills…
• Self-esteem – Feeling good about yourself and liking yourself… Being able to handle criticism and the negative opinions of others… Not needing their approval all the time…

There are many more things that can be said about Inner Game. Guys have told me different definitions over the years.

• Inner Game is: Knowing that a woman has certain expectations of you that you need to live up to…
• Inner Game is: Being relaxed and natural with women, and not having to “fake it to make it” all the time…
• Inner Game is: Knowing you’ve “got the goods” when it comes to having value to give to a woman – in conversation, as well as in your lifestyle…
• Inner Game is: Not feeling awkward around women or in social situations…
• Inner Game is: Keeping conversations with women interesting and going where you want them to go – without ending up as another shoulder to cry on…
• Inner Game is: Getting past your flaws and frustrations once and for all…
• Inner Game is: Being able to take the risks you always wanted to…
• Inner Game is: Managing the peaks and valleys of your confidence level as it goes up and down…
• Inner Game is: Making things you’ve already learned about women and all the pieces fall into place quicker…
• Inner Game is: Not feeling disappointed by women and relationships from the past…
• Inner Game is: Bouncing back from failures and rejections… and not taking them personally…
• Inner Game is: Staying true to yourself and your identity – not compromising your values and morals just to get women or get ahead in life…
• Inner Game is: Overcoming your own internal conflicts…
• Inner Game is: Awareness and knowing yourself inside and out…
• Inner Game is: Having a strong grip on your own reality – and not getting caught off guard, no matter what comes your way!
• Inner Game is: Being the dominant ALPHA of the group instead of the guy who can’t get a word in edgewise in the conversation…
• Inner Game is: Stop being so attached to the outcome and just be present-moment focused, having fun and staying out of your head…
• Inner Game is: Knowing that whatever happens in life, you will prevail and come out on top!

You can get all the phone numbers you want.

They won’t go if you don’t have an inner game. Beyond Let’s Just Be Friends…

A lot of guys are learning how to get a woman’s phone number. It’s great, until you realize that this will happen. Not. Guarantee you.

Get her to answer the phone.

Get a date with her.

She will be attracted to you, or…

You will be able to escalate with her.

Getting a phone number is the beginning of the game.

You won’t get past the approach if you don’t have the confidence and psychology mastered in advance. Is that true? You approach her. At all. .

Sometimes knowledge will be enough to make a man approach something.

Imagine if you knew you wouldn’t be rattled by a beautiful woman’s attitude.

What do you want to feel? Do you want your Inner Game to be handled?

It really depends on a feeling. It’s up to you to control your own life.

You don’t want to feel like your success is in the hands of other people. You don’t want to feel like that. You cannot control your success with women.

Let me ask you something.

You try to use a line on a woman and it doesn’t work. It was dead embarrassing silence. Is it flat on its face?

I have as well.

They don’t seem to work for guys that learn a lot of techniques and lines to use on women.

Techniques and routines don’t work.

The level of self-esteem and self confidence of the guy using them is usually the reason.

By using another guy’s lines and words, you’re sending a subtle message to your self-esteem that the only thing you can do to attract women is not be yourself. That doesn’t change a guy’s inner game.

Don’t you think you don’t need Outer Game to attract women?

Yes! You need them.

I teach those as well.

If you have the inner game confidence, then your outer game is automatic, according to a lot of guys.

That is not always true.

You walked up to a woman and found that your tongue was tied and your head was foggy as you tried to say something. I bet it killed your confidence as well.

Yes, you. Absolutely. I teach techniques and strategies that people need.

But You can’t run everything on the Outer Game script by yourself. You end up with a game that looks like this.

This is what you want. Don’t. Want…

There is a small area where the inner game and the outer game intersect. That is. Weak, wussy game. It is possible for women to detect a mile away. Thanks to television shows. Women are familiar with the routines and openers.

The gray outer game bubble is weak because you have to fake a lot more than you should. It doesn’t take a lot to pop that bubble.

Imagine what would happen. The inner game. And your. There is an Outer Game. Are they? Both complete and congruent.

Your game would look like this.

Big difference, huh?

No one ever explains to you how your mind works, or teaches you how to control and manage your emotions.

I went through all 12 grades of regular school, and another 6 years of college, and never once did a teacher tell me how to be more confident. I needed it the most when I was a young boy.

No one. We are taught this stuff. We are supposed to figure it out on our own.

It is like looking for a needle in a haystack.

Let me tell you a story.

I had a girlfriend. I really liked her name, Christina. She was tall, thin, red hair, and a hot body that made me crazy.

Well, that’s right. That is. Was it the problem?

When we were dating, I felt like I was going down the road of You’re Messing This Up! You start when you can’t believe you’re worthy of this girl. acting Are you not worthy?

Along comes Mr. Self-sabotage.

I got drunk at her high school reunion and started doing self-destructive things, like calling her too much and going over to see her.

I was the bad part. knew. I was being needy. I couldn’t stop myself. . I couldn’t help but hear a voice in my head telling me that I was messing this up, but I couldn’t help myself. Continue doing it!

I was jealous of how much time she was spending with her friends. I called her six times one night to tell her how I was going to change and I was going to change right away.

She told me we needed to take a break.

OUCH .

I was dumped in the end. It was a big time.

I was dating another girl for a few months.

I went over to surprise her. Who got surprised?

I waited in the parking lot for her because she wasn’t home when I got there.

I realized she was staying somewhere else when I woke up in the morning.

With. Someone. It’s not like it’s like it’s like it’s like it’s like it’s like it’s like it’s like it’s like it’s like it’s like it’s like it’s like it’s like it Other than that. .

BIG ouch.

I went to see a therapist after falling into a deep depression. I got out of it completely after 8 months.

It was bad. I feel sick talking about it.

There is a happy ending to the story…

The skills I needed to overcome my emotional issues were found during this time.

Getting my self-confidence and self-control was the key to taking care of most of my issues in my personal life and my dating life.

I realized how I was driving away women in my life. I learned how to be a cool guy and hang out with people.

It was like getting out of a freezer and going outside.

This sense inside that I could finally relax was even better. I don’t want to be a nervous head case everywhere I go if I stop making all this stuff a priority.

Women can read their own game.

Women are the most irrational creatures on the planet, and they can also read a man’s level of confidence better than anyone else.

• She knows when you’re approaching her and feeling nervous and can barely say your name…

• She knows when your self-confidence is in the crapper because of your last breakup…

• She knows when you need her approval because you are not feeling well in other areas of your life.

The ultimate effect of having a woman that can read you is that it keeps us honest.

Have you ever heard that women want confident guys?

Probably only about a milion times.

You don’t need to feel like your game is being destroyed by a woman that can see right through you.

What they say is true.

Fix your game and everything else. Really takes care of itself.

As I was teaching men some of the secrets of coaching, I discovered something else. The ultimate inner game. He got good with women when he got focused on the right parts of his personality and self-improvement.

And that’s what I mean. It’s sad. Good.

He had no idea. Why? This was happening as well.

He was able to be more relaxed with women, and he was also able to come up with the perfect things to say in any situation.

What was happening was that he unlocked his own. There is a natural game. .

What is the nature of the game?

It is the kind of game a guy has when he is not trying to be someone else. He is comfortable in his skin.

He isn’t using pickup artist material. He is not trying to hypnotize women.

He is tuning into his own ability. Our inner game doesn’t come with an instruction book, so we spend years and years trying to figure out how it’s supposed to work.

Take this quick game quiz.

Add up all the questions you answer yes to to answer them.

1. Do you feel confident everywhere else, but when you’re with a woman you really want it all disappears?
2. Are you confident with certain women, but the 9s and 10s leave you speechless and nervous?
3. Are you ever intimidated by trying to date younger, more attractive women?
4. Do you have trouble handling the other more aggressive guys out there?
5. Do you feel invisible to women? Do you feel like beautiful women shake you up?
6. Do you intellectually know that sex with a woman won’t really solve all your problems, but you still feel driven to pursue it at all costs?
7. Do you ever feel “stuck” in your head? Do you feel like you think more about things than you should?
8. Do you frequently feel indecisive? Anxious? Nervous? So much that it’s holding you back from doing things other people seem to have no problem with?
9. Do you know that your knowledge and experience needs to be put to work in the real world, but you can’t seem to find those steps to “connect the dots” to get started?
10. Do you just want to feel comfortable in your own skin? And authentic to who you are?
11. Do you want to be able to express your feelings and true personality? Free from being judged by other people’s critical eye?
12. Do you want to feel like the “prize” that a woman is desperate to win?

85% of the guys I have worked with have answered 4 or more questions yes in the quiz above.

The problem is that most other guys wouldn’t admit it, so you end up feeling weird.

Most men out there are playing the fake it game with their inner game and self-confidence. 80% of the guys that you think of as very confident are more anxious in their heads than you would think.

Guys are faking it with women.

There is a little secret for you.

When you master your game, natural game is what you have. It’s inside. The game…

The discovery that his game with women comes naturally when he finds his confidence has been made by every one of the guys that I have coached to get their inner game together.

He also finds that.

• Conversation comes easy. There are no more uncomfortable silences…

• The sting of rejection disappears. Your identity is no longer in her hands…
• Women can no longer make you feel inadequate, or hurt your feelings…
• When you see an attractive woman you want to meet, you still have that same sense of excitement and thrill, but you don’t feel like you have to go after her.
• You don’t need any routines with women. You don’t have to go out with a full head of stuff you never use to find the perfect thing to say.
• Social situations become very easy. make friends wherever you go…
• You stop losing your emotional cool around women, and you stop feeling like a puppet pulled around by the strings of jealousy and fear…
• You feel comfortable and authentic when relating to people, and your anxiety and nervousness disappears…

Your social life can be affected by your inner game.

Have you ever been out trying to meet people and have fun, or have you just been hanging around with your friends? They didn’t seem to want to connect with you no matter how hard you tried.

Your level of inner confidence is related to how successful you are with your social life and social network.

Your natural social game is the same as dating. It’s automatically done. Your inner game is stable.

What are the most important parts of your game?

Here are the key areas. A man has a core game.

I am going to let you know about it. There are 6 key areas of the game. A man needs to understand and master. The others just take care of themselves when these are taken care of.

1. Self-confidence and self-esteem.

Every guy has a list of things he wants to improve.

We want to be confident and secure, and we want to like who we are as a person. We have no better thing to aspire to in our lives.

How do you improve it? It is not one of those things that you are taught in school. When I was growing up, my dad did not teach me this. My parents told me not to worry about it. What good is that?

I found a bunch of news reports about how your self-esteem is connected to everything in your life when I was researching for this article.

• Your level of income…
• The amount of satisfaction you get from your frienships…
• Your health – including how often you get sick – and how long you will live…
• Your job security…
• Your happiness…
• The relationship you have with your family …

Isn’t it amazing? One. Is your self-confidence the reason for such a large part of a man’s life?

2. Self-control and emotional control.

I wish I had been able to call my ex in the middle of the night or wait out in the parking lot for her to come home from her other boyfriend.

Self-discipline is the ability to say what you want when you know you should, and to keep your mouth shut when you shouldn’t.

Every guy wants emotional control when he has a woman that likes to push his buttons.

It is absolutely necessary when a woman starts testing us. When a woman asks you a test question like, Do you have a girlfriend?, you start to feel panicked.

A woman’s ultimate decision about how she feels about you always comes down to how you control your emotions at a few key and critical moments.

When the time comes, will you know what to do?

You have to know the next area of inner game.

3. How to get rid of self-destructive behaviors.

You could also call it How to Change yourself without the stress.

How to change is a skill that no one has taught us.

I was raised in a family that never seemed to change. My dad tried everything, and he smoked like a chimney.

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